The mother of late South African rapper, Kiernan Forbes who was popularly called AKA, Lynn Forbes, has taken to social media to send comforting words of hope to “parents who have had to bury a child just like she did.”
The multiple-award-winning rapper was murdered in a drive-by shooting alongside his close friend, celebrity chef and entrepreneur, Tebello “Tibz” Motshoane, on February 10, 2023, while waiting outside popular Durban restaurant.
Though about seven suspects were arrested last month and charged to court by the SA police, AKA’s mom who is a social media influencer and podcaster, says she is still grieving and has decided to reach out to other grieving parents.
Since his murder, the Forbes family, especially his parents, Tony and Lynn, have been extremely vocal about their struggles in overcoming his death.
They have appeared on various radio and TV shows and podcasts to talk about his death as well as the vacuum his demise has brought.
In a recent podcast broadcast, Lynn said she had embarked on an “eat, pray, love” journey last year, hoping to heal her soul.
Her most recent attempt in finding solace is by offering it to those who are going through the same grieving process as her.
Taking to her Instagram account on Thursday, Lynn said:
“English has no word for the overwhelming grief a parent experiences over the death of their child.”
Continuing, she went on to explain a certain what a Sanskrit term called “Vilomah”, stands for, she says means “against the natural order of things”.
“The term ‘Vilomah’ describes a parent who has lost their child. Life has its natural order, and in that order, children are supposed to outlive their parents. But sometimes there comes a time when parents have to bury their children.
“For those parents, who lost a child, whose identity has been altered forever and who is looking for a community to identify with, I hope this helps you on your journey of grief and understanding the completely altered human being you are.
“I hope it brings you just a little more solace,” she wrote.