Effects of the devastating floods that ravaged South Africa’s KwaZulu-Natal province last month which left 435 people dead or missing, and destroyed properties worth millions of dollars, are still being felt as the country rallies from its worst floods in 60 years.
With mass burial conducted for the dead while the residents are still trying to come to terms with their losses, a family in Pietermaritzburg is grappling with losing nine family members including children as young as two years, who were swept away by the raging torrents.
In a report by BBC Africa on Sunday, the unimaginable tragedy that struck the Mdlalose family saw Slindile Mdalose, 43, and nine children aged between two and 10 years, including five of her own children who were killed in the floods, is one they are still to come to terms with.
“To tell you the truth, we’re crazy, we’re numb. We can’t use our heads. It’s even too much to comprehend,” the children’s uncle, Thokozani Mdlalose, said.
“The children were sleeping when the violent water passed through them, flattening their home. It’s been three weeks and some of the bodies have yet to be found,” Thokozani added.
“When you have to share your grief, you think of this, you think of that one. It’s too much. It’s hard to lose a person. It’s worse to lose two. 10 is something else,” he said.
The mass funeral for the deceased Slindile and her five children, Uyanda, Lubanzi, Ziyanda, Asanele, Lulama, was conducted on Saturday while the family is still searching for four other children who are still missing.
“Knowing that we haven’t found them, that they might be decomposing somewhere out there – words can’t describe what’s inside me right now. I can’t even gather my thoughts,” Thokozani said.
The children’s aunt, Nonkululeko Mdlalose, who also spoke of the family’s grief, said the last time she spoke to her sister on the phone hours before they died, she could tell her sister was scared.
“It was raining heavily, unlike anything they had ever seen before. Yet they did not expect it to lead to disaster.
“I’ve never felt this kind of pain. I thought I was a strong person but I realize I’m not, we’ll need help, I realize we’ll need guidance. It’s too much for anyone to bear,” Nonkululeko said in tears.
South African President Cyril Ramaphosa has acknowledged more funds are needed than the initial $68m (£55m) set aside to rebuild KwaZulu-Natal and all that has been lost.
“It’s a long way to go for many people, from those who have lost their families to those who have lost their homes or their livelihoods.
“As the real picture of the devastation caused by the floods emerges, many will need all the help they can get,” Ramaphosa said when he visited the province.